Christmas 2008

For Christmas this year we did the usual Pittsburgh-Buffalo whirlwind trip to give RJ a White Christmas (which, as you can see here, in a picture I call the tantrum angel, he did NOT appreciate), with a little more whirlwind than usual. First RJ and Momma flew into Buffalo and left the next morning to drive down to Pittsburgh to visit with Grandma D, GG-ma, GG-dad, Great Uncle Jim, and Great Aunt Helen. While we were there, RJ and I also went to the Children's School 40th Aniversary gala at Carnegie Mellon. For reference, The Children's School was the preschool/kindergarten in the basement of the Margaret Morrison building where I worked throughout my undergrad career and where I conducted my honors thesis research.

In addition to seeing mommy and daddy's alma mater, RJ also got to spend some much appreciated time with his GGs (great grandparents). He especially liked playing with one of Daddy's old trucks with GGdad who taught him to say, "mine!", much to my dismay. Uncle Jim also taught him to say, "Santa Claus".


Then we drove back to Buffalo, with Grandma D in tow so that we could meet Daddy, who was flying in the next day!

Of course, Daddy's plane was delayed for 4 hours, and once it landed we drove back to Grammie's house in a complete whiteout! Then Grandma D's plane for later that day was canceled and she got to stay and hang out with RJ for another couple of days before she got a flight back!
While in Buffalo, RJ enjoyed hanging out with Grammie, Grandpa, Aunt Amy, and Uncle Luke ("guke"), who also affectionately got called, "Geek", as well as all his great aunts and great uncles and second cousins.
RJ also enjoyed dropping Baby Jesus on his head during my family's "lighting of the Christmas Tree" tradition. Every year, my paternal grandparents don't light the tree until Christmas Eve, when it gets blessed and the whole family is together. First we sing silent night, and then my grandfather reads the Christmas Story from the Bible by candlelight (held by two of the grandkids) while another grandkid (or great-grandkid now) carries in Baby Jesus to put him in the manger under the tree. Well, RJ had his first turn at carrying in the ceramic Baby Jesus (which my great grandmother made, so it's a bit irreplaceable) and promptly, on the way in during the singing of "Silent Night", dropped Baby Jesus on the carpet. Luckily Baby Jesus did not suffer any brain trauma, nicks, scrapes, or shattered limbs. Then RJ thought that the singing meant that he could make requests, and proceded to ask for, "Bus" (The wheels on the bus) during the entire thing!
In addition to taking part in family tradition, RJ also got a ton of Christmas presents. He definitely got into opening his presents this year and he has finally figured out that toys (not the paper) are for playing with!
On Christmas Day, while RJ did not get a puppy (maybe next year?!), he did get to play with Kricket, who let him walk her around my Uncle's house!

Then when Aunt Amy and Uncle Luke had to leave to return to South Carolina, Grammie, Daddy, RJ and I followed them down to Pittsburgh, where RJ had his first Primanti Bros. sandwich


and got to hang out with his GGs and Great Aunt and Uncle a little more. This time, we got pictures of RJ behind the counter at Quiznos!
Then we were back to Buffalo for a day before heading back to sunny (errr rainy these days) California! A shout out goes to the Buffalo Airport for their toddler terminal, which was conveniently located directly adjacent to our terminal!
RJ was also spoiled rotten the entire trip, by EVERYONE, and he got to eat a TON of sweets, much more than normal! This picture was taken after eating/wearing a warmed cookie at Uncle Jim and Aunt Helen's Quiznos. Thanks everyone!!!

#47 and 3D...

I know what you are thinking -- wait, isn't that Hall of Famer and 4 time super bowl winner defensive back Mel Blount's retired number? Yes it is and a "Go Steelers" is appropriate, but I actually thought I'd share the news about Dreamworks Animation being listed this year at #47 on Fortune's 100 Best Companies to Work For.



If you are interested they put up a video. We're still hiring in my department.

Also don't forget to pick up your glasses before watching the Steelers win their 6th Superbowl on Sunday. If you can't find them in the grocery store you can call Pepsi Consumer Relations at 1-800-646-2904 and they will send you glasses in the mail. You may have to call today in order to get them in time.

Prison Break...

After returning home from the holidays last year, we decided that the break in a routine was a good time to initiate a sleep policy so that we could sleep through the night. That was very successful and RJ has slept through the night pretty much ever since then. We wanted to make another adjustment this year -- removing the pacifier as a sleep-time essential. He no longer asks for it during the day and will even drop it in his crib voluntarily before leaving his room in the morning, but he still requires it for falling asleep at night and at naptime. As his teeth continue to come in we wanted to break the paci-habit to prevent needing a second mortgage for orthodontics.

On the first Saturday of the new year we hid the pacifier for his afternoon nap. It was a little heart-breaking because he was used to the routine and calmly reminded me "paci?". Then he saw me put his book away and repeated "paci?" As I started heading for the door -- "paci? paci! paci, paci, paci!" I tried to reassure him that he's a big boy now and didn't need it but he wasn't buying it. We committed to helping him through this transition so no backing down now or he'll own us for the rest of his life.

He was angry. Crying, screaming, and very much not sleeping. After about 10 minutes he quieted down. It surprised us it would be that easy. Then he surprised us as he ran into the living room where we were having lunch.

The first question rolling around in our head was "He can do that?" after which we tried to solve the mystery of how he did it without getting hurt given the obstacles.

Obstacle #1: The Crib



At 26" from mattress to top, somehow our 34" long boy managed to get out of the crib. There was no evidence that he dug out with a spoon. The clothes hamper was close to his crib, so maybe he dragged it over and used it for leverage.

Obstacle #2: The Door



We didn't think he quite had the dexterity for turning the doorknob yet, so we thought he may have had an accomplice. Perhaps the door wasn't fully latched and our cat Boca Chica sprung him from the outside.

Obstacle #3: The Stairs



Ok, that's just scary. We don't have a gate at the top of the stairs yet because the one we bought didn't fit with the banister so we just don't let him run around upstairs as an interim solution. He goes up and down the stairs all the time, with us holding his hand and walking with him. He has crawled down backwards or scooted on his butt before so that's probably what he did.

We tried putting him down for bed that night again. We took a few precautions this time, moving the hamper to the other side of the room and keeping a close eye on the cat. Listening intently to the monitor we heard him drop out of the crib. Running in he was covered in blood as he had cut his lip pretty badly.

Now What?

Uncertain whether Alcatraz could contain this kid, Cheryl remembered a parenting tip from Gilmore Girls (Season 5, Episode 6 -- "Norman Mailer, I'm Pregnant") so we decided to turn the crib around and put it in the corner of the room. This worked well because the back of his crib is higher than the other 3 sides. We also gave him back the comforting support of his beloved "paci" and within a few days we were back to our normal sleep routine. We'll wait until he's ready to give up the pacifier on his own terms (or his 18th birthday, whichever comes first) but at least he hasn't tried climbing out of the crib since.

We just turned his crib back around so here is a more recent picture of him in his crib, lip long ago healed and he's even a little bit taller:

RJ Skills: Drawing

Here is part two in a series of short videos of RJ's skills. As of late, he has enjoyed drawing a lot. Like the last video, it would seem as though RJ does not have the proper drawing supplies like big crayons and construction paper, but he does...he even has an easel now too (Thank You Grammie!!)... we just seem to video tape him when he's NOT playing with his normal stuff. I really love watching him draw since he pays such close attention to what he's doing! It's about the only time he's still too!

It's also looking like RJ will be right handed. Most of the time when drawing or coloring with paper or the magna doodle he does use his right hand. It's not universal though - I sometimes see him using his left hand. This shouldn't be a suprise since Lance and I are both right handed. We'll just have to wait and see what shakes out - I've just tried to put the crayons in front of him rather than putting one in his hand unless he's reaching for one.

Enjoy watching RJ hard at work!

RJ Skills: Stacking

We know we're behind again in our blogosphere, but here are some things from the archives to keep you entertained...one of these days, life will calm down and we'll get this blog in order again!

I took this short clip of RJ on our still camera because it was within an arm's reach when he spontaneously decided to take cans out of the pantry and stack them. I particularly like how he kept saying, "Stack 'em" as he was stacking. It seems that about 5 high is the upper limit, but I think that's pretty good for unevenly sized heavy cans!

As a note, RJ does have toys, including blocks with which to stack; he is playing with canned goods by choice, not due to a need for playthings! I think he was interested in a new medium for his skill! Plus, I was in the kitchen busy getting dinner on the table, so he didn't want to be in the adjoined family room (all the way on the other side of the couch!) by himself with his toys.

Enjoy!

Real Men DO Eat Quiche!!

This video requires a bit of an explanation, even though Lance hates it when I feel the need to write longer blog posts to explain something. But in this case, most blog readers would have no idea what on earth this video is about otherwise.

First, RJ is still relatively picky about eating meat of any kind - so getting protein that isn't in the form of milk or yogurt into the boy is a challenge. He is the oddball kid that isn't crazy about eating chicken nuggets or peanut butter and jelly!! He does eat beans on occasion (lately he's been picky about them and will spit them out), but one protein source that he LOVES is quiche. It's a bonus for me, since I can also get a bunch of green vegetables into him that way too (although veggies are much less of a challenge than meat...go figure).

So when RJ and I left for Pittsburgh this holiday season, one of the things that I packed for our first day there was a container of quiche. Technically, it was a frittata because there was no crust. However, Lance's Uncle Jim seemed hellbent on getting RJ to give up the ONE protein that's a sure thing for him by informing RJ that, "Real Men Don't Eat Quiche". This is actually a title from a book published in the early 80's about stereotypes (thank you wikipedia!). He also teached RJ to say, "bleh!" to quiche. Luckily it did not seem to affect RJ's eating that evening, but I was a bit worried for what he would do the next time I made a quiche. This video is for Great Uncle Jim, from RJ, who lucky for Uncle Jim, still LOVES his quiche, and believes that this love has no bearing on his masculinity.

One and half years old

Yeah, we're behind, RJ is now 19 months, but we thought that the year and a half milestone was important to talk about.

For those of you who like stats:

Height: 34 inches tall (90th percentile)
- since his first birthday, he has grown 4 inches and jumped from the 50th to the 90th percentile in height!

Weight: 23.13 lbs. (25th percentile)
- since his first birthday, he has gained about 3 lbs. and jumped from somewhere between the 10-25 to the actual 25th percentile.

Head circumference
- we got a poor measurement somewhere, because his head clearly didn't shrink in the past 6 months. Anyway, the doctor didn't redo this one and honestly wasn't really concerned as his head appears quite normal.

Teeth
- RJ has 7.5 teeth with more clearly on the way. He has the top 4 front teeth his right top molar most of the way through and his left top molar just poking through. He also has his two front bottom teeth. We're thinking that those bottom teeth will be getting some friends soon! (Now at 19 mos. he has 9 teeth - 4 top front, 2 top bottom and 2 top molars and his bottom right molar) The doctor informed us that the water in Tracy isn't flouridated but that she doesn't recommend giving drops daily, but rather just once in a while to give him a little boost since flouride toothpaste isn't recommended for a toddler who can only spit when he wants to and not when mommy wants him to.

With physical development, he's right on track, if not advanced. She was happy to hear that he can kick a ball since it involves balancing on one foot. She was also impressed with the climbing ability that I described. And she even got to keep some of RJ's artwork since he drew all over the questionnaire that I had to fill out about what he eats and drinks and stuff.

Verbally, he's off the charts...literally. I mentioned that he uses well over 40 words (I lost count after 40 or so and it's probably at least doubled or tripled by now) and has started putting together two and three word phrases and she exclaimed, "That's not even on this chart!"

RJ also got two shots (MMR & DTaP), which he did not appreciate. As I was scheduling his 2 year old check up, he kept giving that particular nurse the evil eye - he was really pissed at her! Later in the day he also did not appreciate the Snoopy band-aids either. He kept picking at them.

We didn't vaccinate for chicken pox because I'm not comfortable with the vaccine being still relatively new - we don't know what the long term effects are yet, so we'll let it go a few more years. We will vaccinate RJ for chicken pox if he gets to age 10 or something and hasn't gotten chicken pox yet (it can be more dangerous for an older child or adult), but right now, even our doctor said that we didn't have to vaccinate him quite yet.

We also decided against the flu shot. I really expected more of a fight from our doctor on that one, but I'm just anti-flu shot for normal healthy people, and she was fine with it since he's generally healthy.

The bottom line is that we have a healthy, tall, skinny, and smart little boy in our lives.

Mommy, Push!

Vocabulary and word combination is fantastic. I was counting RJ's words and a month or so ago I hit over 40 words that RJ speaks, and since then, I have just lost count. RJ can usually let us know what he wants reasonably well with words. He still speaks a good amount of gibberish, but he's getting better and better at parroting and making his words sound the way they're supposed to. However, we're now starting to see the downside in all of this. He can now make demands of us and we can't pretend we don't understand him!

Mom/Grammie Carola's Visit

On November 13, my mom came to town to see us and experience our break-neck speed of life here. On Friday, she came to CSU Stanislaus and hung out in my office, went on a walk with RJ's class at the Child Development Center, had lunch with me and a colleague, went to a meeting of the Undergraduate Curriculum Committee with me, and then helped by doing some grading and adding up the points earned on the graded quizzes. After the eventful day, we picked up RJ and headed to Livermore to meet Lance at Campo Di Bocce for dinner.

On Saturday, we figured that we should have some fun, and since Mom only got to see a small part of San Francisco on her last visit (We went to the city 2 days before RJ was born - and only waddled through North Beach and part of Golden Gate Park), we headed off to the city to enjoy the beautiful (77 degree) weather. This time, we hit Fisherman's Wharf for lunch at Boudin, explored the Marina district, and drove part of the scenic drive to wind up at the massive playground in Golden Gate Park, and finally had dinner at Bistro 9 in the Sunset District.

On Sunday we mostly stayed in, but also went grocery shopping. I cooked for the week while Grammie played with her adoring grandson, and even taught him how to scrub the floor.
We don't normally make our visitors clean our house (and we do own a mop - Mom just didn't like it), but since I was busy cooking a week's worth of food, I had little energy to stop her! We definitely appreciated her help. And for the record, we use the super-gentle eco-friendly all-natural floor cleaner, so RJ wasn't soaking his hands in anything abrasive or toxic or anything.

Then it was back to the old grind for Mom, RJ, and I on Monday as Mom got to witness how we get a weeks worth of cloth diapers to school on Monday morning on top of the diaper bag for his afternoon babysitter, his lunch, my lunch, my laptop, sippy cup, my water bottle, and of course the main little man himself! It was quite nice to have extra hands! Then Mom's day was filled with being my personal assistant - filing articles for me, cleaning my office, as well as more fun stuff like going for another walk with RJ's class and observing him when they returned. She also got to go to a meeting of the Child Development Program committee as well.

On Mom's last day, she finally got to attend my classes (I only teach Tuesday/Thursday courses), but was so exhausted by our busy life, that she fell asleep in both of them! But there might be some truth in her claims that she was "just resting her eyes", because she did actually do pretty well on the oral pop quiz I gave her on the walk back to my office.

Then on Wednesday morning it was sadly time for Mom/Grammie to go home where it was 40 degrees colder and not nearly as sunny. On Wednesday night, when we got home from school, RJ went running into the guest room asking, "Ahmee, ahmee??" with the saddest little toddler face. I think Grammie might need to consider a move to California - we all need her here!!

How high, real high, cause I'm just so fly...

RJ took Lance and I to his friend Stella's Second Birthday party. She is a little girl in his class at school and he shares a babysitter with her two afternoons a week after school. Since the party was a joint birthday party with her four year old brother (their birthdays are two years and one day apart), there was also the ever-popular bounce house in attendance as well. These things seem to be a staple at birthday parties and carnivals alike out here in California. The bigger kids were jumping like mad in there when we first arrived, so we were trying to keep RJ away from it, but shortly after arriving, a group of baby/toddler parents banded together to kick out the older ones so the younger ones could explore for a little with the parents. I don't think I've been in a bounce house since the last-day-of-classes celebration at CMU senior year! Much like Momma, RJ is now hooked on bounce houses.



Now were not sure if it was the fact that he was reunited with his girlfriends from last year (who have since moved up to preschool from the toddler class)



or if it was this new found love of the bounce house, but RJ decided that he was not going to wait for another "baby - time" in the bounce house, and went right on in with the bigger kids!



And was promptly protected, loved, and mauled by a circle of older women.



...one of whom has three dolls at home named "RJ".

News we can relate to...

For those of you subscribed to the mailing list or RSS feed you probably never notice the interesting news on the blog itself. These are news items that we come across in google reader that seem worth sharing and are generally relevant to child-rearing, our jobs, life in northern california, etc. Here are a few of the postings from the past month:

• Does involving parents really help students learn? Depends on how they're involved
  
  
• Should you let your toddler/preschooler watch TV? Part II
  
  
• Bay Area To Install Electric Vehicle Grid - check out the documentary "Who Killed the Electric Car"
  
  
• Anti-Matter Created By Laser At Livermore - should we be scared this is less than 20 miles from our house
  
  
• NorCal median home price plummets 41 percent - the rest of the bay area is starting to experience what we in the central valley already saw
  
  
• CSU to impose enrollment caps in budget crisis - Cheryl's school is making cuts but unclear what impact it will have on her yet
  
  
• Life in the San Francisco exburbs - the mortgage mess and Mountain House
  
  
• Photo du Jour 269 - funny sign spotted during the proposition 8 protests
  
  
• 'Madagascar' roars with $63.5 million weekend - San Jose Mercury News - good start toward another bonus
  
  
• Bush Street Renamed - the picture and updated caption are worth seeing if you are happy with the election
  
  
• San Francisco voted #1 U.S. City to visit by Conde Nast Traveler Readers - so why aren't you here already?
  
  

You can also see these if you use google reader. Sadly, you may hear about another story that was picked up by the AP and majors about a neighborhood just 3 miles from our house. Not what we had in mind when starting this post last week.

Happy Thanks for Giving the Crayon to Daddy...

RJ had the first "solid food" meal of his life last year for Thanksgiving. He's lucky this Thanksgiving wasn't his last after getting a little too overzealous with a crayon on our floor. Aside from enjoying time at home playing with mommy and daddy he enjoyed the selection of food this year much more than the rice cereal he had last year (see last year's post: I'm Thankful for Momma's Boobies).






Thanks Mommy for making another delicious Thanksgiving meal despite having a nasty stomach bug and being sick all day.

Take a ride wit me...

This post comes from the unfinished archive -- we started it in October but are just finishing up now.

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Since he was born, RJ has been riding rear-facing. This is the safest way for a baby to ride, and so we continued to sit rear facing as long as we could. The limits of the car seat for rear facing were 35 lbs/33inches tall. RJ is still a little guy, so I know he's not 35 lbs and won't be for a while (he was 20 lbs in June!) but he does keep growing out of his feetie pajamas, so I knew he was getting pretty tall.

We had to play a rare game of musical car seats a few weekends back due to my car needing service and Tracy Honda being really really slow. I decided to measure RJ because he has been frustrated about his less than spacious car rides lately (he's been kicking the seat back for a while). Sure enough, RJ was approximately 32.5 inches tall. It was hard to tell exactly because he was wearing shoes, wouldn't stand up straight when I had the measuring tape out and kept dancing around and ducking! Anyway, since he was so close, and my measurement was probably an underestimate due to the ducking, and he's been frustrated and cramped (thus making the long commute uncomfortable for me too), it was time to flip the seat.



Now all I need is to get him a toy steering wheel to play with in the car. He's obsessed with getting at the real steering wheel. This picture was of him after climbing in through the passenger seat and over the armrest to get to the coveted drivers seat!

Cartunes and Car-eoke...

As of late, RJ has been demanding some musical entertainment from me in the car. I'm not quite sure why I started singing "Row Row Row Your Boat" to him one day on our commute home, but now I seem to have brought out his musical side. Since he first figured out that if he says "Row?", it gets Mommy to sing, the demand for music has not stopped.

Also in the repoirtoire of requests is "Eeeieeeieeeieeieeeieei...." or as it is more commonly known, "Old Mac Donald". Again, WHY did I do this to myself??? Oh well, the literature on education tells me that hearing live singing and being allowed to sing themselves (no matter how annoying 5 minutes straight of just singing "eeieeieeeieeeioh" is) is good for young children's cognitive development.

Then RJ started adding songs that he sings at school into the lineup. Unfortunately, while I know the lyrics to a pretty large repetoire of children's songs (Thank you, 4 years at the Carnegie Mellon Children's School!), I was not prepared to sing "Bear Hunt" when I figured out that all his knee slapping meant that he wanted that song in particular. This led to enough tantrums (even after I attempted to sing what little I knew of it in a really half-assed manner), that I finally asked Krishawn to make me a copy of the "Bear Hunt" CD that they use at school. This CD is fantastic. Not only does it make RJ happy (Only if he asks nicely for "Hut, Peeze" though. I do not want to give in to the tantruming!), but it also has the magical power in keeping RJ's 7 month old girlfriend, Ashlan, calm in the car when we drive her home on Wednesdays. (Her mommy teaches a night class and they live in Tracy too, so I pick up Ashlan and take her home to her daddy, but lately she hasn't been napping in the car and the alternative has been screaming during about half of the 50 minute commute.)

And just recently, RJ started singing all by himself. His first song is "Twinkle Twinkle Little Star". And as you will hear, it's actually pretty recognizable!

Reed loves to Read...

In the car:



In his highchair:



On the toilet:



Even in bed:

The Mortgage Mess: We Made the Times

From a NY Times article today:

MOUNTAIN HOUSE, Calif. — This town, 59 feet above sea level, is the most underwater community in America.

Because of plunging home values, almost 90 percent of homeowners here owe more on their mortgages than their houses are worth, according to figures released Monday. That is the highest percentage in the country. The average homeowner in Mountain House is “underwater,” as it is known, by $122,000.

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Many in Mountain House have already taken that option. Banks took over 101 properties in the 95391 ZIP code in the third quarter, according to DataQuick Information Systems.

Hey, we were one of the those 101 -- well, we were renting one anyway. The bank took possession of the house we rented roughly 90 days after we were given 60 day notice to quit. After not paying rent for the past 5 months we make our first mortgage payment this month on our new home in Tracy.

Pumpkin Patch Kids...

A few weeks ago, we met up with our friends Sara and Madeline at a local farm for their Annual Corn Maze and Pumpkin Patch. You might remember that we took RJ last year and he took a nap in the Snugli. Boy what a difference a year makes!

First, once RJ could be distracted away from the Truck that was being raffled off (the boy LOVES trucks) he picked out a pumpkin.





And then had a fabulous time chasing Madeline through the corn maze, which interestingly enough was depicting a truck carrying a pumpkin.
We also learned that toddlers don't understand the purpose of the corn maze, nor are they detered or disappointed by dead ends, loops, or finding the entrance again. Toddlers also do not understand arbitrary rules and thereby were determined to get us in trouble - RJ kept trying to break off the corn stalks and Madeline tried to run through the corn stalks instead of sticking to the path!

Everybody was Candy Foraging...

Not very original, but RJ was a Kung Fu Panda for Halloween. He didn't quite get the trick or treat thing at first and tried to make off with all of our own Kit Kats.

We only went to our immediate neighbors houses, mostly to say hi because RJ was just as thrilled giving candy away to every kid that came to our porch...

...unless they were wearing a mask. Not a big fan of the masks.

Truck Stop...

RJ's first haircut was on his birthday last June, so now, almost 5 months later, his hair was overdue for another trim. As one of RJ's favorite words is "ruck" we found the most appropriate place for him to get his mullet managed is a place called Sharkey's in Livermore (just opened in August):


RJ loved playing with the steering wheel and the motorized pedal (it's really silly they keep batteries in these things since they're clearly not going anywhere - but it made him happy to make the motor go!). Occasionally he looked up at Elmo on the TV screen (yeah, even after I mentioned that he didn't watch TV, they still had to put in a DVD), but for the most part, he was much more into wiggling and "steering" his truck.

What's up...

A couple weeks ago while riding home RJ spontaneously put together one of his favorite words, "erpane" with a new one "sky". We live near a small airport so we frequently see planes flying when out for walks around town. As if this two word phrase wasn't enough to impress us he followed a couple days later with:

RJ: up, up, up, up

Cheryl: What's up RJ?

RJ: sky

Great. He's a smart ass already.

Madagascar 2

A few weeks ago, Lance and I attended the Madagascar 2 Wrap Party and Screening. RJ got to stay home and play with Kasie that evening as it was an adults-only party at City View at the Metreon. The party was a lot of fun, but the movie was the highlight for me. The CG animation has improved even more and I have to say that the sequel is even better than the first Madagascar movie - and that one was my favorite of all the DreamWorks Animation films.



Madagascar 2: Escape to Africa opens on November 7. You should go see it.

If you have Comcast you can see some video clips and behind the scenes video clips:

No on Proposition 8...

RJ is a very friendly boy. Whenever he sees young girls, he gives them a hug. At the faculty party this year he waited by the door for all the daughters of coworkers to show up and get hugs. Unfortunately this affection got him bit once at school, but even after being love scorned once he still won't shy away from walking up to a random girl at the Gap Outlet and wrap his arms around her.

He's not even ashamed of a little man(equin) love either:

Grandpa's Visit to Calaveras

My father came to visit us over my birthday weekend. On Friday, he initiated the first ever Cal State "Bring your daddy to work" day. While I was in a meeting, he spent the morning observing RJ at school from the observation booth. I got a full play by play of RJ's day afterward! We had lunch with a colleague and then attended a department committee meeting. Unfortunately for him, Fridays aren't usually very exciting for me - I typically have a meeting or two and spend the rest of the time prepping or grading! He probably would have had more fun with Lance at work since they had a Tropic Thunder screening, a crunch party, and Antonio Banderas over for lunch (yes, I'm dead serious!).

Saturday

On Saturday, we went from Calaveras Lane to Calaveras County (interestingly enough, neither is on or near the Calaveras Fault line which runs through the East Bay!).

Our first stop was a tour of Moaning Cavern where we descended 165 feet into the caves. For adventure seekers, we'll need to make a second trip (sans RJ) where we can rappel down instead of taking the stairs, and then crawl through tunnels:



We stopped at Angel's Camp which is notable for any Mark Twain or jumping frog fans:





















We skipped over, the Glory Hole Recreation Area and headed to Columbia State Park which is a restored Gold Rush Era town. Think Plymouth Plantation or Williamsburg but with panning for gold and bowling:







Our last stop was for dinner in Sonora and dessert at an old fashioned soda shop.

Sunday

Sunday we mostly hung out around the house -- but we did sneak out in the afternoon for some wine tasting at Concannon Vineyards as well as some frolicking on their grounds:

On being MIA

You probably all know why we've been MIA for awhile as you should've gotten our change of address email. Moving in mid-September when in Academia is always always always a bad idea, but we really didn't have much of a choice because we bought a house and due to a series of incompetent actions (or rather a lack thereof) on the part of our real estate agent in addition to the fact that buying real estate is a frustratingly SLOOOOOW process, our house was just sitting vacant taunting us while my summer off dwindled away to nothing. Anyway, we're going to try and catch up on the blog and publish some of the posts that we started and just didn't finish due to live. We're not even remotely close to being "all moved in", but I still think that you all need to be updated before I have pictures hanging on the wall and my students get their papers graded! So stay tuned...we'll be back before you know it!