Our Guitar Hero...

RJ has become obsessed with guitars lately. If the song on the radio doesn't have a strong guitar riff audible to him, he shouts "Geetar!! Geetar!! Geetar!! Pease!" until the station or the song changes.

Last weekend we had an opportunity to go out for dinner. One of Cheryl's coworkers, as a thank you for transporting her daughter, gave us a gift card to the restaurant at Wente Vineyard along with a free night of babysitting. It didn't take much convincing to get us to cash that in, but after our fancy dinner out, what were two parents to do? Go to Toys R Us and buy a guitar for their son of course.



We've been taking guitar lessons from youtube to practice.

Corned Beef and Cabbage

Here's a picture of RJ eating his corned beef and cabbage on St. Patrick's Day. True to form, he ate the potatoes, carrots and cabbage, but left most of the corned beef. I did manage to get a couple of bites in him, but only tiny pieces that were well hidden in the veggies.



We've also graduated to the "big boy" seats for dinner but still have breakfast in the high chair.

From the days of yore...

Some of you may remember a certain sitcom character who had a distaste for all things Pottery Barn because they lacked a unique story. Well, we searched the Internet, stopped in antique stores, flea markets but could never find a table like the one from the days of yore. You can't even buy them at Pottery Barn anymore. After two years of checking a craiglist search rss feed, we finally got not one but two matches in the same week. The drawers are fantastic places to hide treasures for RJ to find AND it's the perfect height for him to stack blocks on (which he can get to by opening one of the drawers). And since we didn't buy new, I get the satisfaction of saying that we were being green(er) by saving the table from taking up space in the landfill.



In December we bought a new couch that is a pretty good match with the new coffee table. We still have to get a rug to match, but retiring the 20 year old couch that *I* grew up with was an accomplishment. The couch is not at all a green choice, it's blue and a la-z-boy and super comfy. After searching around for information, these couches were recommended as being pretty toddler indestructible and stain resistant.

It's nice to finally feel like a "real" adult by owning stuff that we picked out ourselves because we wanted it, not because it was the better stuff from the mishmosh of hand-me-downs!

Why kids don't know colors

Recently we mentioned that to RJ everything is "yellow" though last Sunday he had a moment of clarity when he pointed to a painting and said "red flowers" (and they *were* red... and flowers). It turns out some of his friends have similar dilemmas, Jace thinks everything is "blue" and Daisy thinks everything is "green". I pondered why that was and think I have an idea on why that is -- Eric Carle.



Come now, how is that a "blue" horse? It's mostly PURPLE!!! No wonder kids don't know colors.

Image taken without permission from "Brown Bear, Brown Bear, What Do You See?" which is currently RJ's favorite book.

RJ goes to the potty

Before you get excited, he went *to* the potty, not *in* the potty.



At home RJ has asked to sit on his potty if we were going to the potty ourselves, but he had a first this week at school -- he asked his teachers if he could go potty. Being the excellent teachers they are they took him to the potty just like the other big kids. He didn't produce anything, but it is a first step. You can see on his daily report a record of this attempt.

RJ the Meteorologist

San Francisco has the reputation for its fog, but for those of you that don't live in the Golden State's Central Valley we get quite a lot as well. In fact, the fog where I work is thought by some to be even worse and is known as tule fog.



I always get questions about how I like driving in the fog on my long commute, but I don't see the big deal as it's about 10 times better than driving in a blizzard. The visibility is the same, but you don't have the additional worry about sliding on ice! So it's foggy a lot this time of year (rainy season) and RJ is in my car a lot and a few times I'd have to explain to him why he couldn't see the cows and horses and goats that we typically pass on the way to school.

So last week, we were driving (through fog) to school and RJ spoke up from the back seat saying, "Mommy, Foggy, Outside". To which I responded by telling him, "Yes RJ, it IS foggy outside. That's why we can't see a whole lot."

Then he said something even more remarkable.

He said, "foggy...outside" then paused for a second or two and then said, "fRRoggy...bathtub" (he has a frog-themed bathroom).

I found this remarkable because it was showing that he could recognize the similarities between the two words as well as differentiating them for meaning (and location!). I love how he can communicate with us!



This picture was taken by Lance on his iphone on his way to work. Once the fog lifts, the rain slows, and the sun comes out it can be quite beautiful.

RJ Goes to the Library

A couple of weeks ago, when I was on a break between Winter and Spring semester that was far too short, RJ and I went to the Tracy library to meet up with my good friend Sara and his good friend Madeline. While there, RJ was pretty much in heaven, running around picking up random books and sitting on my lap to read them and then run around some more. He picked out his very own books to take home with us.

Airplanes: This was a book that was far too advanced for him on Airplanes (it was from the big kid non-fiction section, but he spotted it and became instantly obsessed with it). He loved going through it saying airplane, airplane, airplane, airplane, etc...

A Sandra Boynton board book that involves counting Hippos going to a party: This book gave him a new word to add to the "list" that I can no longer keep up with - wagon.

Trucks: A nice little book that talks about different kinds of trucks on the road. His favorite pages in the book were the page that had the bulldozer (or "digger" in RJ speak) on it and the page with the ice cream truck.

Mi Cuarto: A spanish board book that labels household items. I've been trying to expose RJ to a little Spanish, even though I don't speak it really. I remember some of the vocab from high school, but that's about it. Anyway, I would label the items in Spanish and RJ would correct me by using the English. But it did what I wanted it to do - it exposed him to it.

And finally, the book that I think RJ was using to try and send a message:



Here comes Grandma!: He was instantly obsessed with this book and he found it and picked it up all by himself. It's a cute little book where a Grandma is on her way to see a grandkid and does so by walking, bicycling, driving a bright red hot rod, riding a horse, flying an airplane, skiing, taking a hot air balloon, swimming, and riding as a stowaway on a train until she finally sees her grandkid at the end. RJ has a Grandma (Lance's mom) and a Grammie (my mom) and on about half of the readings, RJ would point to the Grandma and say "Grammie" and on about half he would say, "Grandma". I found this pretty cool that he was relating the book to his own life. He also labeled the child in the book as RJ every single time we read it! I think that RJ was trying to tell Grandma and Grammie something by picking out this book!

RJ GPS

My commute is longer than average at about 50 minutes, but more scenic than most too since we get to ride alongside the coastal range that borders Tracy on the south and west, and then drive through some of the best farmland in California as we pass vineyards, orchards and dairy farms before hitting a short piece of freeway to get to school. Yes, RJ and I do see quite a few of the "Happy Cows" of California.

Anyway, on the ride in, once we pass the farm animals, RJ is usually occupied by either begging to see a digger or a bus or chanting his current favorite teachers' and/or friends' names over and over as if that would make us get there faster (at least we know he likes school!). But on the way home, he is a little more willing to have a conversation and as we get close to home, he gets a little antsy about being in his car seat, and starts asking to get out. So when this happens I usually tell him that we're getting close and tell him which road or route # we're on and I'll give him updates when we turn. Also, RJ seems to enjoy my driving, as he says, "Whheeeee" every time I make a turn - even when it's a normal everyday turn and not the kind of turn that I'd take in a buggy or anything!

Just last week, it seems as though he's internalized these direction and can now tell you that we live on Calaveras and, while he's in the car, he will pretend he's the GPS and give the last three directions to get to our house.
Here's a little demonstration since I don't have the video camera on while I'm driving.




Now we're working on colors: red light = stop (which he pretty much has down) and green light = go, which is a little more inconsistent. He may not even be able to see the lights anyway, but he doesn't recognize the colors himself yet - he only responds to, "RJ we're at a red light, what do we do?". If you're interested in his color recognition, it's still developing. Right now, everything is yellow.

RJ the Delivery Boy

Here is another post from the archives. I can't believe that I'm still 6 months behind in editing all the videos we've taken on the video camera!

From August 2008 (14.5 months):
RJ has hit a very very very exciting milestone. He can follow simple directions. I could elaborate, but really, just watch the self-explanatory video.



We kept him busy for about 20 minutes with this "game".

Bad News for Yahoo...

This is another video from when RJ was 15 months, part of the reason why we think RJ's one in a googolplex!

The beginning of the end of the boobie era....

When RJ was just over a year old, we started dropping nursing sessions one by one. I led this process because I knew that come fall semester, I was going to need business hours free of nursing so that I could actually do my work at work and not both at work and at home in between nursing sessions (last year, I'd just about get focused and then it would be time to nurse or pump again and it was exhausting). This was pretty easy for the most part because he was getting to the point where he didn't want to stop playing to nurse, and he loved sippy cups of cows milk. But he loved his morning and evening nursing, so we kept them both and I made the decision that once the middle of the day sessions were cut, the weaning process was going to be solely in RJ's court. Around October or November, RJ decided one morning that he didn't want to nurse. I asked him, "RJ do you want the boobies?" and he simply replied, "no" and went on with his playing. From that day, he pretty much dropped the morning session (which means we can get to school earlier, which helps me get more work done when I have child care and less on the weekend!).

The evening nursing was a completely different story - he would be frantically asking for boobies as early as our commute home sometimes! I was still loving it and he was clearly still loving it! So we had a don't offer, don't refuse policy, where RJ would ask for boobies and I would nurse. Then, a couple of weeks ago, on a Friday (the 20th of February maybe), Lance got home just as I was getting RJ into his PJs and the distraction seemed to make him forget to ask and he simply went through the rest of the routine without asking. Since that day, he's been asking for them on average of every 4-5th day or so. It's actually been kind of nice to still be able to nurse him from time to time, but not HAVE to every day. Plus, it seems to be a nice gradual wean for me - I haven't had any pain or fullness or anything. I'm sure the absolute end is near, and I'm looking forward to having my body 100% back, but it's been an absolutely fantastic almost 21 months - both RJ and I have really enjoyed nursing and I am so happy that we've been able to keep it up so long. It was great for bonding and health and even the environment! Now I just hope that he doesn't suddenly start catching every little cold at school as a result! The kiddo really is growing up now!