Friday, August 31, 2012

Co-op - August 2012

With our original co-op triad moving on to Kindergarten and Preschool programs and the younger siblings coming of age to enjoy co-op, us co-op mommies decided that it was time to change how our co-op worked.  While hosting all 6 kids (ranging in age from 1 to 5) was POSSIBLE, it did get chaotic and with the age span, and there was a limit to the types of activities we could do.  So we decided to split it into two separate days, one afternoon a week after school for the original 3 big kids, and one morning a week for the little kids.  It is the case that the hosting mom's little kid is also around for the big kid afternoon (although the other two little ones do actually take a nap during that time too.)  Similarly, the hosting mom's big kid is sometimes around for part or all of the little kid co-op too.  For example, when I host the little kids, we take the double stroller and the Ergo to pick up RJ from school.  It sometimes gets tricky to schedule when we have other stuff going on, but we all like that the kids have some regularly scheduled playtime with each other, and the smaller, split age groups makes it easier to have projects and activities planned that will work for that particular age group!

This month, one of the big co-op activities was signing the floor at Zach's house when Lisa was hosting.  While no one WANTS to have their dishwasher flood the kitchen, requiring new cabinets and flooring, the plus side (other than a nice remodel) was that the kids got to draw all over the sub-floor, and now their drawings will forever be a (hidden) part of the house.



I managed to take a bunch of pictures when I was hosting the little kids (which may have been the first time or the second time, I don't remember which) when we were using sidewalk paint.

It started off great with all three little ones happily painting the sidewalk.

Then they ran away.  (Don't worry - I rounded them up again immediately after taking the picture.)
They returned to painting, but then each one of them spilled their paint, and it became a full body experience for Austin.  I love how Logan looks like he's saying, "Look dude, that looks fun, but you're doing it wrong".  It's just not fun unless you get messy!

Then we walked to pick up RJ from school.  Logan sat in the top seat of the stroller, while Austin got the bottom seat, where he quickly made it apparent that we had a busy morning, and Natalie got to ride on my back in the Ergo, since she's the lightest!

More co-op pictures from August are here and here.


Monday, August 13, 2012

RJ Goes to Kindergarten and a Rant

Well, the big day is finally here.  [Or came and went since I'm publishing this in March instead of August] RJ started Kindergarten!!!  Yay! Well, sort of...I'm happy that RJ is going to Kindergarten, but its been a bit of a ride to get here. In a way I feel we've been screwed and I'm hoping for the best. Back when we bought the house in 2008, we chose our neighborhood considering the school district.  There are two elementary districts in Tracy - Tracy Unified and Jefferson District, each of which has several elementary schools.  Unlike where I grew up, where each district was really just one elementary school, one middle school, and one high school, out here, the districts have many neighborhood elementary schools (each is set up so that children walk to the school in their neighborhood).  Some have middle schools which pool from a few elementary schools, and there are three high schools that pool from the elementary and middle schools.  Some of the elementary schools are K-8, some are K-5/6, which is why there are are few middle schools in the Tracy Unified District.



We're in Jefferson District, which was known for better elementary schools, particularly ours, which started in 2006.  However, all children go to Tracy Unified Schools for High School (why there are two elementary districts when all kids end up in the Tracy Unified district for high school is beyond me).   The other reason why we originally wanted to live within Jefferson district was because they had a traditional school year and being that I was working on a traditional school year schedule as a professor at the time, I wanted RJ's schedule to match mine.  Tracy Unified, at the time, had year round school on a couple of different tracks where they would have 2-3 week breaks at varying intervals, which would've wreaked havoc with my academic schedule.  Anyway, it's a moot point now, since that system is now gone and the whole city is on the traditional academic calendar again.  That's the extent to which we looked into the schools when we moved back in 2008, and were happy with our decision.  That is until RJ turned 4 and I started looking into things further.  First, I learned that only half-day Kindergarten was offered by our neighborhood school, Traina, which I was disappointed about.  Also, having been exposed to the options that other friends had in other cities (Turlock had several unique programs, as do many cities in the Bay Area, which isn't surprising, because EVERYTHING is better in the Bay Area), I was disappointed to learn that we basically had next to nothing in terms of magnet schools, charter schools, or duel immersion language programs, and while we were in one of the best schools in Tracy, it wasn't super outstanding either.


The one viable alternative I could find in Tracy was the Tracy Learning Center, Primary Charter School, which would've been a great program for RJ - full day, great program, and developmentally appropriate instruction.  However, it was in the Tracy Unified School District.  We were eligible to apply, but the lottery system that they used basically put us Jefferson District folks in the last hat to get picked from (First slots go to faculty/staff, then siblings, then Tracy Unified, then Jefferson and other outlying areas).  We had pretty much zero chance, but applied anyway.  The Kindergarten takes 60 children.  We've been informed by the school that we're between 80-99 ON THE WAIT LIST.  So basically the class would need to repopulate nearly twice in order for us to get a spot.  We're going to keep RJ on the waitlist, but in the meantime, he's going to Traina Elementary, which is our neighborhood public school. I was on the ball with registration, because I knew that we wanted a morning kindergarten placement, but apparently it was not early enough, since we were stuck with afternoon kindergarten, which was about the very worst thing that could have happened with RJ going to Kindergarten since it's from 11-3, interferes with Logan's nap, and cuts into just about anything we'd ever want to do outside of school.  Since we got the list, I had called the school several times to inquire about a wait-list for any morning openings that might appear, but no one EVER got back to me, so we were stuck.

But before I get ahead of myself, I know you want to hear about his first day.  He was adorable.  We made sure that his backpack was red, and he (quite surprisingly) was fine with a gray/blue "Life is Good" lunchbox instead of a Lightning McQueen one.  I wanted to avoid a character bag, because I want him to be able to use the backpack and lunchbox for more than a year, and while the 3 years he's been obsessed with Lightning McQueen would indicate that the supplies might have some longevity, I would hardly think that an 8 year old would still want a Lightning McQueen backpack and lunchbox.

I am a huge dork and was super excited to make him his school lunch.  We bought him a small bento box for his lunch bag, and I made him a Lightning McQueen bento for his first day.  Lance thought I was torturing him by making the car out of a roasted beet, but RJ LOVES beets and finished the whole thing, and loved it. Daddy worked from home for the first day so that he could help walk him to and from school (we live .62 miles from the school and I refuse to drive and idle in the pick up line unless I absolutely have to), which RJ loved.  Drop off was actually fairly uneventful and RJ seemed to go with the flow, more than even I expected.  His teacher, Mrs. Lassell, let the parents walk them into the classroom, but very quickly had the kids wave good-bye and sent us on our merry way.







When we picked him up, he was in great spirits (although he was whining about how hot it was because it was boiling outside - completely oblivious to the fact that we had also walked TO the school while he was still in his nice air conditioned classroom) and rattled off a description of his day, which seemed to be mostly procedural stuff, like learning to raise his hand and the school rules.  He also came home wearing a ladybug hat and a ladybug coloring sheet (Child Development people, don't EVEN get me started on the coloring sheet...that rant is for another blog post, which I'm sure is coming soon[Editors note: see my Momma, Ph.D. blog for a homework critique, of which I hope to still do more]).


The good news is that while he spent his first week in PM kindergarten, by the end of the week, there was an opening in AM kindergarten, and my argument for switching him was convincing enough for the principal, so he began his second week in the morning class, with a new teacher, Mrs. Finton. It might have been a whirlwind start, but we're getting into the groove now, we officially have a kindergartner, and I'm sure we're in for quite a ride!
More pictures: HERE

Saturday, August 11, 2012

RJ Goes Rock Climbing - August 11, 2012

With my newly found climbing opportunities, I did a little research into finding a place to get the kids to climb.  There is a place called City Beach, not too far away that has a "Family Fun Night", where for $15/kid, there is climbing and a couple of bounce houses, space to run around, hula hoops, etc.  We figured Logan might be a little small to climb, but this was a good place to go because if nothing else, he could bounce, and RJ would definitely be able to climb.

Turns out, Logan was just barely big enough to try it (but not even close to mature enough to do any climbing - he just bounced on the self-belay line), so we just got them both geared up and gave it a shot.

Look how cute his little belly is
sticking out of his harness.  His
biggest fascination was the lock
on the sport bolt.  
Okay mom, you've proven your
point, I'm on a rock wall.  But I'm
2.5 years old.  This is all your
getting.  Next!




Logan might have been a little
young, but RJ took right to it.
Here he is getting started.
While RJ climbed, Logan found hula hoops.

Going up...
and up...
...and over the slight outcropping.
This is definitely one of my
favorite moments of being a
parent.  Right up there with him
being born, saying he loves me,
singing songs from glee,
and he first time he stole my sushi.





Pretty good form there, RJ
Meanwhile, Logan enjoyed the
bounce house slide.

Yay!  He likes it!!  RJ and I will definitely have to go back here sometime to get him fully hooked.  Logan is still a little young to justify the cost, but it's a perfect Mommy-RJ date!  

More pictures here.







































Monday, August 6, 2012

Cheryl Climbs Diablo - August 5, 2012

bye bye old climbing shoes
Thank goodness for my friend Laura!  I didn't have to wait long before climbing again, which was good, because I didn't want to wait another 6 years since I needed to buy new shoes (my rubber had split) and a new harness (since mine was "expired").

Although I was worried at first because I was excited to get started and got there a bit early.


It was really peaceful being there so early though.  The fog was just starting to lift and the air was fresh, and I didn't have to worry about any children getting stung by yellow jackets.  And Mount Diablo is closer to my house at just over an hour away (you can actually see the summit of Mount Diablo from our neighborhood and we've been there a few times, both with RJ as a baby and hiking alone).  



Lydia borrowed sunscreen and
found herself a little white.
The next day I made sure to get
RJ on the wall at the playground
Laura and Lydia got there and we found the climb we wanted on Boy Scout Rocks.  We were fortunate to have a friendly group next to us, who consisted of a couple taking their 11 year old nephew (and his mom/their sister/in-law) climbing outdoors for the first time.   We even swapped ropes a few times after checking each other's set ups.  It was a really cool experience getting to see a kid out there, because I got a glimpse of what I could have with RJ and Logan if they get interested in climbing too.  SO COOL!!








We focused mostly on a bitch of a crack climb, which was challenging, but good.  I didn't look quite so graceful this time out!

I think the photo credit goes to Laura, because Lydia
was belaying.

Lydia looks MUCH more
graceful in the crack.
Lydia's view from above

Can't wait to go again!
More pictures here.

Wednesday, August 1, 2012

July 2012 in Pictures

We started off the month by going to the Alameda Point Antiques Faire.  The children weren't overly impressed, but it's huge and Lance and I liked it.  Though we might go again WITHOUT the kids so we can look at more.

I found this beautiful gem!  British Release, Mint Condition, $20
We also celebrated Father's Day (with RJ's birthday weekend usually coinciding, we generally pick a different weekend to celebrate Lance).

We made daddy "burger" cupcakes.  That's a brownie stuck in there.  They were delicious!

We also took Daddy out to dinner in Livermore and walked around the downtown area there.

There were also randomly silly moments.

RJ is still taking gymnastics
Co-op is still going strong.

We finally converted Logan's crib to a toddler bed (and within a month, he gave up napping).

RJ's Harry Potter obsession began

We had fun with friends...



 And lots of fun at the park...


And ended the month with a visit to the zoo before our membership expired.

This is the most activity we've EVER seen from the tigers!  Usually there is only one of them out and it's sleeping!
More pictures from the zoo.
More pictures from July.